Our little Valentine

Lila loved Valentine's Day this year. "Happy Balentymes Day!" She loved saying that so much, she just kept saying it over and over. She had two Valentine's Day parties, at each of her schools, and she wore the same shirt both days. Different undershirts and different pants, but the same "LOVE" shirt. Shhhhhhhh..................

She loved handing out the Valentines that we made for her friends.

After school, we had a fabulous gluten free lunch (LOL) then headed out to dance cwass later that afternoon. Lila wore our favorite tutu and brought flowers for Miss Kristen, her teacher.






After ballet, we headed home and Daddy met us there. With flowers in hand.



Mommy got flowers too, so she was happy.


Daddy got cards and seafood linguine, so he was happy.

The End.

Brief health update

I have 3 half-written posts that are waiting to be finished, so hopefully this one will actually make it to the part where I hit "Publish Post". LOL

The Infectious Disease doctor finally called me last night. (Which was fabulous since their office has had Lila's lab results since Monday. But whatever. )

Lila does indeed have a suppressed immune system, which we already knew. She has low IgM's and she is also on the very low end of normal range on the rest of the immunoglobulins: IgA, IgG, IgE and IgD.

IgM antibodies are the largest antibody. They are found in blood and lymph fluid and are the first type of antibody made in response to an infection. They also cause other immune system cells to destroy foreign substances.

The doctor said that she is concerned about Lila's IgM results and would like to re-test her in a month. I never asked why she was concerned and she never said. FYI- if you google low IgM, which of course I did, the first three results are IgM, IgM blood test, and IgM leukemia.

I am doing some research on my own and reaching out to some of our DS community members that unfortunately have experience with leukemia and their kids with DS. Statistics show that one in every 95 children with Down Syndrome develops leukemia so we know that Lila is at a higher risk than people without Down Syndrome. That being said, Lila has had repeated infections but lacks any of the other symptoms that seem to go along with leukemia.

We are still waiting on the results from 2 more lab tests- oxidative burst and natural killer cells. As soon as I have all of the results I will fax them to Lila's hematologist and see what she thinks.

In the meantime, we are on day 20 of a gluten-free diet for Lila and we will see if that gives her immune system a boost. We haven't noticed any changes at home but it's early in the game. We still feel like it was the best decision for Lila and thankfully the decision is supported by her teachers, therapists and doctors.

Whatever is going on in her little body, I am thankful that we have faith in a God that loves Lila even more than we do. The fact that she is alive today is nothing short of a miracle and we know there is a beautiful purpose for her life.

Please say a little prayer for her, that she will be well and that we will find definitive answers about what is going on in her little body very soon.



Hugs~


Linda

Gymnastics.....wayyyyy better than PT!

We took Lila out of private PT and enrolled her in dance and gymnastics. She always has a great time at dance class but I'm starting to think that she loves gymnastics even more. (And it's so cute when she tries to say the word "gymnastics".)

You can tell that the teachers in the class enjoy working with kids, and they make it so fun! All the kids always look like they are having such a good time. They do organized activities on the mats, then let the kids run around and play.


I love it because Lila has become so much more confident. Eighteen months ago, before she started "sensory-focused" OT, there's no way she would have enjoyed this class. She would have been on the sidelines watching the other kids. Now, she's right in the middle of everything, sometimes taking more chances than I would like her to. LOL

Oh, and I also love it because the parents get to watch from outside the room, enjoying adult conversation. : ) Is it wrong to say that is the best part for me?









One good thing about Lila being on antibiotics for almost 3 months straight is that she hasn't missed any classes~ either dance or gymnastics.

I've been thinking a lot about Lila's health issues and how she hasn't made much (or any) progress in school this year because of her health and a bad situation at her former public school. It has really gotten me down. It seems like she was making such great progress and then, BAM. In some ways, she basically just stopped. But when I really think about it, I see a few areas in which she has progressed.

If Lila didn't have Down Syndrome, I wouldn't have met most of my awesome friends in this area! And when she struggles with and overcomes certain things, that gives me the opportunity to share our experience with others and hopefully help them on their journey. And the list goes on.

Focusing on the positive today. There's so much good stuff.

Hugs~


Linda

A little health update....

Lila has been struggling with repeated infections since the beginning of November. She has had 4 sinus infections, strep, 2 staph infections and walking pneumonia. After her second staph infection in 28 days, I decided to make an appointment with an infectious disease (ID) specialist. They were shocked that we did not have a "referring physician". When they asked how I found their office, I told them that I had put infectious disease pediatrics into Google and their name was the first one on the list in our area.

After reviewing Lila's recent health history, the ID stated that something was attacking Lila's immune system. I went back and forth between feeling relieved that I had taken the situation into my own hands by following my gut and feeling sick to my stomach that something might be seriously wrong with our daughter. In the back of my mind I was hoping that the doctor would act as if she had no idea why we were there and send us on our way, telling us to follow up with our pediatrician. She did not.

After a thorough examination, the doctor said that Lila was at the beginning of another sinus infection. I told her that Lila was on day 9 of a 10 day antibiotic for a sinus infection. (During days 3, 4, 5 and 6 she was also on an additional antibiotic combined with a steroid for walking pneumonia.) She told me that the antibiotic wasn't strong enough, and wasn't for a long enough period of time, to knock out a severe sinus infection with the added complication of walking pneumonia. She put Lila on a stronger antibiotic, this time for 14 days instead of 10. (This also happens to be the antibiotic that gave Lila such severe diarrhea that she ended up on an IV in the ER for 7 hours as a result of dehydration and low blood sugar a little over a month ago) She asked if we would be willing to try the antibiotic again, stating that because Lila is allergic to 2 other families of antibiotics, we are running out of options. I hesitantly agreed, not knowing what else to do.

Tomorrow we will have Lila's blood drawn for a long list of tests. Right now we are just ruling things out, and I have to keep that in mind. It just sucks that the tests are for HIV, lupus, and a whole mess of other lovely options. (I lied, Kelly. I said that I wouldn't look at the list but I couldn't stop myself. I had to know.)

We will have a follow-up appointment with the ID in 3 weeks. Until then, we wait. And pray. And try to keep Lila as healthy as possible.

In the meantime, we have put Lila on a gluten-free diet. I have wondered for quite a while if she might have celiac disease. She has had 2 blood tests and both were negative, but sometimes those tests are inconclusive. She definitely has something attacking her immune system, which celiac disease does. Her behavior has also been a bit out of control which can also be another sign of a gluten intolerance. Thanks to a little nudge from my sister Donna, we decided to take gluten out of her diet for at least 6 weeks to see what effect, if any, it has on her health and behavior. (Wouldn't it be awesome if the answer was as simple as a gluten intolerance?)

When I told her teachers and therapists about Lila's new gluten-free diet, I expected some push-back but they have all been 100% supportive. They were giving me reasons why it's a great idea! And thanks to my awesome friend Michelle, I have learned so much about celiac disease in the past few days. I am so grateful for her knowledge and support.

Now you know what we know! I will post an update as soon as we know more. It will be nice to have some answers instead of worrying about all of the unknowns.

Please say a prayer for Miss Lila. She has been not felt well for quite a while and we are anxious for her to feel better soon.

Hugs~


Linda

Birthday party fun

Lila has missed school, church, birthday parties and other fun get-togethers because she has been sick on and off for almost 3 months. But we made the most of the brief and healthy interludes! She was able to attend birthday parties for two of her friends. And that makes her mama's heart very happy!


Roxy's birthday party was a lot of fun! Lila got to build a bear!


She loved their new moon bounce! Oh, how thrilled I was to see her coming down this slide. Because that meant she was able to climb the "rock wall" to make that happen. : )


Always the lover of music, she escaped from the party happenings to play a little tune on the piano.


I just love kids and cupcakes. Such a fun combination!


The party ended with a book exchange. And nothing's better than a new book being read to you by one of your favorite mamas!


Party # 2

Payton's party was a fun dress-up party. Lila loves anything girlie, so dressing up in one of her favorite tutus just added to the excitement of getting to come to the party!

And although it took her a few minutes to warm up,


She was soon having a fabulous time!


Again, kids and cupcakes. Just love the combo. The cupcakes at Payton's party were huge! Lila was not one bit intimidated, though. I thought this one was too pretty to eat but it didn't stop her!



She even let one of Bethany's cousins put some gloss on her lips. (Which I predicted wouldn't happen. Wrong again, mama! LOL)


Lila tried her hand at the limbo.......


She even got back in line to do it again!


Back at Roxy's party, we tried to get a group pictures of all of the kids. Fat chance. Here's how it all went down:








And that is what happens when you have a crazy idea such as that. Complete chaos.

In other news, Justin and Maggie are married! That's one of Lila's favorite things to say now. "Justin and Maggie got maweed! Me, Lila, in wedding!"

I'm almost finished with my wedding post. Still waiting to borrow a few pictures to finish it off. It was a fabulous time and I can't wait to share so that I can relive it all. It was precious and happy and it flew by way too quickly for me.

Until next time, here is a picture of Lila diligently trying to teach Pink her numbers. She cracks me up.


Hugs~


Linda